I value relationships when it is going the right direction and I abhor it when its going the wrong direction. I mean, lots of people enter relationship for different reasons! It is the reason behind the motive of any relationship that determines its destination and the destination determines the outcome… The worst or the best.

One big truth is, no matter how you try, you cannot avoid relationship because man is not an Island. God said “it is not good for man to be alone”(Genesis 2:18). However, the world system have redefined relationships to mean or represent something else. I choose to be among those people who still advocate relationship but with the right mentality, the right people and the right motive. Friendship is one of the best form of relationships. The Bible says ” reliable friends sticks closer than brothers”(Proverbs 18:24)… What does that mean? It means some friendships can be more important and rewarding than brotherly relationships.


Our failures and shortcomings can be traced not only to our personal performances but to the relationships we had with the wrong people and our success and progress can be traced to our relationships with the right people. When you learn to build the right relationship, you will start getting the right result.


The saying “show me your friend and I will tell you who you are” cannot be overemphasised. The people you keep around you determines the character that is formed in you. The bible says that wrong company corrupts good character or morals! You see, being good is not enough… You must also be with good people. You just can’t survive alone, God never made you to survive alone. Being idle can destroy you and being with people can either make you succeed or fail!


Sometimes, friendship graduates to marriage. In fact, the ideal is that friends marry themselves! Because when the romance is lost, friendship is what remains and it is what keeps people together. People have sex and still separate. Couples have great sex and still divorce! Men visit brothels for sex, they don’t remain with the prostitutes. Its just few minutes pleasure and its all over! But friendship is what makes people stay. Friendship doesn’t need sex to exist but in search of intimacy, people have sex and it still fail them.


Now, when you make friends with the right people, you will end up spending your life with the right person. The choice remains yours… Don’t look for the rich or the poor, the beauty or the ugly… JUST LOOK FOR THE RIGHT PEOPLE AND CONNECT!





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