​PRACTICE HAPPINESS


All those things that bother you, all those things that makes you feel insecure, all those things that makes you want to be someone else, all those things that makes you feel restlessness… Is it job, relationship, environments and all of that? 

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You made terrible mistakes?

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There is only one way out…

Treat them like they don’t exist.

Forget it, shake it off, jump out of it, set yourself free, let your heart break… Yes, it will patch back. 

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Cry till there is no tears left but don’t tamper with your life! Correct your mistakes if possible, correct yourself so that you won’t make same mistakes again, come out fresh and wear the most amazing smile on earth! 

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Never let anyone pity you, don’t announce what you went through, just stay strong happy and relaxed. Meet new people of like minds and let go of people who always make you feel less of yourself. Stay positive, dream of a better relationship, a better job, a better life and all that is good! But be realistic.

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Then… Remain positive and make sure your past remains a lesson yet a past, a lesson that will guide others and a lesson that will guide you from not going back. Now, let me tell you how to prevent further damage and how to stay happy all the time. Never forget, practice till it becomes part of you.

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First, you must understand that more money, more clothes, more friends, more love and so on doesn’t guarantee your happiness. It’s a state of the mind and not a result of material things. It’s good to want more love, more commitment, more money and more good stuffs but remember to relax and enjoy what you have. Many times, in a bid to think positive, we start lacking contentment for what we have and start crying over what we don’t have. Your spouse is not responsible for your happiness neither is material things around you responsible for that. It’s you who always make the mistake of giving them that responsibility and of course they cannot always meet up with it because they cannot control the state of your mind. Your happiness depends on you and not on any other person!

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Take up responsibility for yourself and you’ll not be at the mercies of things around you. If you’re not loved, love yourself. If you’re not appreciated, appreciate yourself, if they aren’t proud of you, be proud of yourself. Take a selfie but don’t depend on it. Smile and be in control of your emotions. It’s a practice… Keep practicing! Practice makes perfect, in this case it is very true. It is a habit you build and develop over time.

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You won’t die because people don’t treat you the way you want, you won’t die because people don’t celebrate you the way you celebrate them. You won’t die because people don’t love you the way you love them… You won’t die because people hate you… You won’t die because your boss don’t like you. You can only hurt yourself because you worry about it. Instead of worry about it, get it off the way! Remove that picture from your wall, replace it with a picture of nature, remove things that seem to tell you “you’re not valued” and try to be calm with yourself.

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Stop seeking for happiness by going to the movies, going to games, going out with friends, eating food and even engaging in pleasurable activities! Do them because you want to do them not because you’re seeking for happiness. When you run out of those things you depend on, restlessness and boredom takes over you. Learn to live with yourself and be happy with yourself. I understand how it feels to desperately need someone, I understand how it feel to be ignored but how it feels doesn’t matter any more because today you’re learning to redefine how you react to situations.

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Overcome the habit of keeping things to yourself when it’s really hurting you. Tell your friend he made you sad, tell your friend you don’t like the way she treated you, tell your boss you are resigning because you are not comfortable with that job anymore. Just start doing something about things that worry you than keeping it to yourself.

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We often want people to love us exactly the way we love them, to use our pictures on their dp just because we used theirs, to tell the world about us just because we told the world about them, to get crazy about us just because we are crazy about them, to give us expensive gifts just because we gave them expensive gifts! We just want so many expectations! 

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We want to look like celebrities, we want to have much money like Bill Gate, we want to host conferences like Experience Lagos and we seem to forget we can do our best with our limited strength, we forget we aren’t here to outshine another but to contribute to what others has done.

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Well, this is where we fail it. Expect nothing from people even if you gave them your all. Don’t even expect much from yourself! Accept things the way they are and be realistic. Work towards becoming the best and accept the best that you are. Consider it abomination to beg for love. Never ever beg for love from any man or woman. If you must beg for it, you don’t need it from them. Start loving yourself.

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Be positive, confess positive but don’t be lost in lack of contentment, be content with what you have. Let beautiful things that comes your way everyday be a surprise to your dear heart even though you prayed for it. Don’t stress out your self in pursuit for greatness. You’ll never be disappointed by being realistic. Don’t live a fake-faith life.

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Always know that you’ll have the good and bad times. Always know that you will have high and low moments, always know that no matter how positive we confess, we will experience things other people are experiencing. We will not always stay in profit, we will not always have it our way. But one thing can keep our hopes alive, that as long as God lives, He remains our Shepherd. That we can face challenges but we cannot end in it. We remain successful because we understand success differently.

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Stay in charge…

Stay happy…

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Believe me, you’re the one in charge of your emotions.

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I LOVE YOU.

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#GracefulGeorge

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