ROAD TO DAMN | A TRUE LIFE STORY


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It happened to me, yes me! My name is George O.N.
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I once came across a certain man who wouldn’t get his wife pregnant. I had always seen him along the road but we hardly talk. That faithful afternoon, I was strolling down from my workplace when we approached me. He started telling me how much he admired me, he much he loves the way I walk, talk and even dress. Me? Me that don’t have a great walking step! Hmm… He told me that he have always prayed that he have a son who looks like me and act like me. He was touching my palms and admiring them… In the public o. I was just looking at this man. I had other needs, at that time I needed money for school and not some nonsense talk but being my kind of person, I kept calm and listened as he talked.
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Parents sometimes don’t know what their children meet on the road everyday. We meet all manner of temptations and troubles.
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After he has finished singing praise songs for me, he said he would want me to do something for his family, it will be a very confidential transaction. He had discussed with his wife and they consented to it. He said he would want me to get his wife pregnant, they will pay me handsomely. He started telling me how beautiful and fair his wife is, how pleasurable sleeping with her would be and how she is even eager to have me go down on her. Finally, nollywood has come alive! Never knew such thing happen, I was just a young boy who thought the world was an innocent place like my heart. I had my own troubles but my heart was innocent.
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I was naive, I thought about the money and how it would help me where my parents wouldn’t afford it. I believed they would not just give me money once, they would start helping me often and that will be a better life for me. And he quickly added “if you wouldn’t want to do it in my matrimonial bed, I would ask her to take you to a hotel”
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Believe me, I was confused. Maybe you would have said “no” immediately if you were in my shoe right? Maybe you’re a better Christian and can’t be tempted with such right? Well, I was tempted. Being a novice, I have heard a lot of stories about sex, I had even wanted to explore the sexual part of myself and I had felt maybe the married woman with the consent of her husband will teach me better. At least, I was just going to help them not break up, I won’t be cheating on anyone as I was not in any relationship. Them something happened!
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On a second thought I got scared! My future wife, yes! I would be cheating on her… How? I didn’t know but I suddenly felt uncomfortable. My wife is supposed to be the only mother of my children and not some married woman somewhere! This isn’t help, it is wickedness to myself and my wife!
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No, I can’t bear the shame! But I didn’t have the morale to tell the man all my thoughts. We were trained to respect… Not just respect but fear our elders. On my part, it was not a good thing that I couldn’t voice my thought. I would have been easily pressured into it if there was no other way of saying no.
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Like a girl would do to a guy, I smiled and said to him “sir give me your number, I will call when I get home” he gave me his card and warned me not to disclose this with anyone. When he had left, I squeezed the card and threw it away.
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That was how I escaped from doing a terrible thing! There are so many children in the motherless babies home waiting to be adopted, why didn’t they adopt a child? Why looking for a young person they would change the story of his life? No, not me.
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After sometime, I saw him on the road again and I had to cross to the other side of the road. He was aware I had started avoiding him and we never talked again till date. I didn’t share the experience with my parents, I only had it in my heart and now I am sharing it with you.
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Sometimes, certain people come to us painting a picture that we are helping people while in the right sense we are destroying ourselves. I needed the money but there was something greater than the money ahead of me. I didn’t want to owe my wife apology of what I would have avoided. At all times, saying no to wrong doing is better than apologizing for your wrong doing. Believe me, many boys and girls have betrayed their future spouse by leaving offsprings somewhere else and by aborting babies! Money isn’t everything you know… Don’t make it anyhow. Momentary pleasure isn’t everything, don’t have it anyhow.
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#GracefulGeorge

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