Sometimes, missing your ex is not an indication that you aren't in a perfect relationship. It also doesn't mean something is wrong with you. Your relationship with your ex was special and even though you have moved on, the love relationship has its marks on your soul. This is especially true for relationships where you... Continue Reading →
WHY NO SEX BEFORE MARRIAGE?
Today, you'd get a lot of people cancelling you for saying things like "avoid sex before marriage". Others try to convince you that it helps in making an informed decision about marriage. I think we shouldn't be excusing premarital sex with excuses like "I want to test to be sure of what I'm entering to"...... Continue Reading →
MARRY YOUR IDEAL MAN, DON’T TRY CHANGING SOMEONE ELSE TO BECOME YOUR IDEAL MAN
Before you choose to marry anybody, define what you want, who you want and the life you want. Don't get married to someone who doesn't fit into your desires and then begin to force them to fit in. It's very wrong! Don't sign up for A and begin to reconstruct A to become B. For... Continue Reading →
IS EXCHANGE OF MARITAL VOWS IMPORTANT?
https://open.spotify.com/episode/1pt3TGWnToNZ8KCZs2LESI?si=IFnFpj1aRf60VgG2jnHRCQ&dl_branch=1 I have always maintained that marriage begins the day both parents handed their children over to themselves with their consent which is often accompanied by the ceremony we call "Traditional Wedding". However, traditional commemorations don't allow us to exchange vows in what is reckoned to be a covenant. This may not be a big... Continue Reading →
THE LANGUAGE & TRUTH OF GOD
Oftentimes, we argue what we call "truth", we have our truths and what we hold to be true eventually becomes a lie or half-truth for another person. For example, to some people, an example of truth is that the man and the woman are equals and to another person, it is a lie, while to... Continue Reading →
Women Are Saviours
Weeks or months ago, there was a social media trend all over Africa particularly between the East and West Africa. Although it was largely jokes, it is as a result of a subtle agitation against women who often see men as money bags and see those who don't give them money as stingy. The trend... Continue Reading →
Solving Marital Problems Before Marriage
Marriage is not a child's play. Marriage isn't like those relationships where you are still trying to woo someone into trusting you and falling for you. During those times, we pretend about a lot of things, we try our best to be loving, caring, kind and forbearing. While it doesn't take long for some people's... Continue Reading →