Today, you'd get a lot of people cancelling you for saying things like "avoid sex before marriage". Others try to convince you that it helps in making an informed decision about marriage. I think we shouldn't be excusing premarital sex with excuses like "I want to test to be sure of what I'm entering to"...... Continue Reading →
If you want to know what goes on in the life of your male child, read this and make of it whatever you want. In my family, we weren't brought up to count on friendships. We were dissuaded from making friends. Making friends of the opposite sex was an abomination. I grew up not being... Continue Reading →
Before you choose to marry anybody, define what you want, who you want and the life you want. Don't get married to someone who doesn't fit into your desires and then begin to force them to fit in. It's very wrong! Don't sign up for A and begin to reconstruct A to become B. For... Continue Reading →
The other day, I asked if it was right to have unrestrained access to your partner's phones, and the majority of people responded in the affirmative. From the time I started dating my wife to this day that we are married, I have never gone through my wife's conversations with others and if I must... Continue Reading →
I asked previously, “where did God say it is the duty of the woman to keep the home while the man makes money?” and a fellow responded, “I found this post hilarious, preposterous, and unassuming.” He went ahead to submit Titus 2:4-5 as the place that established wives as the keeper of the home and... Continue Reading →
Should a Christian get a massage? Is it sinful for a married man or woman to get a massage from the opposite sex? Do spouses have a say on who massage their partner? We have a guide in the scriptures as regards this.
It's one month since I got married. I've got some things to share but I will leave it till the time is right and matured. Marriage is beautiful. You may say it is too early to come to that summation. I don't think so. I have always cherished marriage before getting married. I have always... Continue Reading →