Someone asked "George, if adultery means having sex with someone who isn't your spouse, why didn't God have Abraham and the rest have multiple wives and even concubines who are like side chics. Please help throw more light on this." My Answer... The Bible's definition of adultery is not what many of us make out... Continue Reading →
Why The Fuss About Mutual Submission By Christian Men?
Ideally, there shouldn't be any argument at all about mutual submission. Two adults in a relationship should hold each other accountable, serve one another, love one another and cherish one another. These are two adults in a relationship and not a father and daughter relationship. Imagine an educated woman in a marriage where her opinion... Continue Reading →
Submission Isn’t Primarily A Gender Role
More on submission in marriage… There is a danger in trying to interpret everything we read in the Bible that was written more than 6000 and 2000 years ago using a modern understanding of words. It’s more dangerous when we isolate texts in the Bible from the rest of the other following or preceding texts.... Continue Reading →
SUBMISSION IS MUTUAL.
Many Christian men, unfortunately, have a very poor understanding of submission in marriage. First, God didn't command women to SUBMIT in marriage as an exclusive right of the man. It's not in the Bible! Submission in marriage is not a coercion. Submission IS NOT a man's EXCLUSIVE right. Unfortunately, very wrong teachings on submission have... Continue Reading →
STILL MISSING YOUR EX?
Sometimes, missing your ex is not an indication that you aren't in a perfect relationship. It also doesn't mean something is wrong with you. Your relationship with your ex was special and even though you have moved on, the love relationship has its marks on your soul. This is especially true for relationships where you... Continue Reading →
Benefits & Purpose Of Marriage
Is sex the purpose of marriage? One of the questions people ask themselves is "what do I lose if I stay unmarried? If sex is all that there is to marriage and I can have sex outside marriage, what is there in marriage for me?" While some religious people may have gotten their curiosities on... Continue Reading →
WHY NO SEX BEFORE MARRIAGE?
Today, you'd get a lot of people cancelling you for saying things like "avoid sex before marriage". Others try to convince you that it helps in making an informed decision about marriage. I think we shouldn't be excusing premarital sex with excuses like "I want to test to be sure of what I'm entering to"...... Continue Reading →